Being Single as a Lifestyle

If you dream of creating a family, it doesn’t mean that all other people want the same. Some people like their bachelor life and don’t hurry to get married. A big part of men continues to update their notebooks with new female names. They meet girls online, on the streets and at bars at the time, but they always leave them, being afraid even to stick around for one more night. These men are fond of women, but they are sure that the wedding dress spoils their character. In the bachelor's house, everything is in its places, according to the taste of the owner, and the idea that someone can try to change something in the interior is just unacceptable. What are the main root causes of such a lifestyle?

• A negative experience.

To begin with, it is worthwhile to look at the previous experience with the girls. Often, it happens that men decide to be single due to a sad love story. They might have been offended, humiliated, ridiculed, used, cheated, or a tragedy has broken their love up.

• The mother.

Leonardo DiCaprio once admitted that he had not yet married because he did not meet a perfect woman. His mother is the image of an ideal woman for him, and only she deserves expensive jewelry with diamonds. If a man holds the same opinion, then his lifestyle is not a surprise. If she doesn’t meet his requirements, then the chances of creating a healthy relationship are practically reduced to zero. Sooner or later, such a man leaves any woman.

• Too many hobbies.

A real bachelor is always an enthusiastic person. Moreover, each of their favorite pastimes is not just another whim, an escape from boredom or a tribute paid to fashion but a serious hobby that perfectly characterizes their character, and also helps attract women's attention. A man who has decided to be single makes a real cult and is betrayed to it despite everything. These men don’t want to adjust to someone, stand someone's whims, or be responsible for things they are not interested in. They are egoists and pragmatists to the core.

• A workaholic.

When someone is in love solely with their work, this means that there might be no room for other things in their lives. If they are "married" to their work, then any woman is just a kind of mistress. However, nobody wants to be on the sidelines. By the way, such workaholics may have low libido, and they do not need frequent sexual contacts. This is one of the root causes of workaholism.

• The lone wolf.

These men dream of being alone due to the problems with social adaptation or because they are introverts. He cannot find a common language with others due to his shut-in personality. It is necessary to look for a special approach for such a person because initially, such a man isn’t interested in any company.

• A tendency.

All his ex-girlfriends are like factory-made dolls, being long-haired brunettes of model appearance or ladies with curvy bodies. If there is such an obvious tendency, then a man's relationships are built only on physical passion instead of personal communication. These men live in accordance with the phrase of Oscar Wilde, "One should always be in love. That is the reason one should never marry.”

Obviously, these items are not mandatory for a single man, but if there are more than three coincidences, then probably, this man doesn’t want to change his lifestyle and start a long-term relationship.

There are bachelors who forget over time why they do not want to marry anyone and do not aspire to family life. They just have a habit of living like that, freely, independently, without daily reports and family responsibilities. Some people are forced to be single while others choose this lifestyle voluntarily.

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